Happy 2011’s eve. At time like this, some of us may use as reminiscing moment, the other choose to hanging out with old friends, or best friends, even more a new boyfriend, or perhaps a beautiful night of family gathering. What I really want to say, is you spend this day like no other day would be. But the fact is, every day isn’t like another day, everyday is as special as every New Year. And I believe that we should live like this everyday.
Treats each of time you have as there’s no other day coming, like this your last chance. It reminds me of The Bucket List made by two old men whom have months by their doctor. At first it’s that Carter made it is just a way toward accepting his upcoming death, as the step of grievance. Kubler Ross identified Grief cycle into 5 stages. First one is denial, then anger, bargaining, depression and then at last they will accept their conditions. Now, he actually still on denial stage with all the doctors’ verdict, but he’s been pushed himself to be wisely as his age reflects. He translated it into this list. A bucket list itself is a piece of paper that filled by wants and dreams of a persons’ life to be accomplished, before the time is up. But, he couldn’t finish it, because at last he thought that is just silly. Then he threw it away.
Unfortunately, the thrown away list is found by his roommate at hospital whose also own the very hospital they’re at. He’s old and hopeless just like Carter, but unlike Carter he’s lonely—as without a family backing his up—and the important thing is, He is a millionaire. He threw money for living. Attracted by list made by carter, he intends to do it and asked Carter to join him. But first, they made the list much longer as they moved to bargaining stage
The most ridiculous, naive, but also a beautiful and touching moment from this movie is how they pushed their self out of their persona that they used everyday, and just live the life. Like—I already said many times now—there is no other day. They hiked the mount of Himalaya, they rode a motorcycle at the Great Walls, and they did skydiving. They also did what is beyond those superficial— and interesting stuff. They did things that never been thought by the before. Like one of their list, kissing the most beautiful girl in the world, they—especially Blah—never expect that the girl is would be the granddaughter whose he never seen before because of the long cold war with his daughter.
By this movie, I assure you that u will be touched by them, as they touched me. Deep in my heart I believe, that what happens in our live is only the best things we can have, with one underlined note, that we opened ourselves to such amazing experience. We let the good things be allied with our live. We embrace every moment we can face. When we do, it will be the same as we life everyday as there is only one day.
Happy New Year. Let’s wish that every year is special for us (BedtimeMovies)
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